Can gay men be attracted to women
Can a gay gentleman be attracted to a specific teen, but not women in general, and sti
I absolutely undertake think it workable for a same-sex attracted man to be attracted to a specific woman, but not women in general.
I am a heterosexual gal and have been with my husband for almost ten years. As newly weds, I adv realized that my husband was male lover. Initially I didn't mention anything, result in it didn't bother me, as we were very in love, happy and comfortable with one another. He was always effeminate and I felt that he could be himself with me and not cover his sexuality as he would in public. Then one day he came out and admitted to a male love he had in earlier years. He said he was tired of hiding who he really was. He didn't want to be afraid anymore. He didn't wish to be scared of being judged or losing friends. He just felt he wanted to be true to himself. He was so afraid... terrified that I would leave him for coming out. So I told him, that even if he were queer , even if we had come from different religious backgrounds, if he were black, white or yellow, or severly disfigured.... I loved him for his heart, his traits, his kindness. We make a superb team, we acquire an excellent association, we
I'm a gay male who is getting more and more attracted to women
I was a flight attendant, and I had a casual friendship with a gold star(not flaming, but very same-sex attracted in all the usual superficial ways:fastidious appearance, bright, witty, charming beyond belief)gay dude who was approaching 40. Craig had been partnered for 12 years, and he was a graduate of ORU, so coming out was a pretty damn huge deal for him. One day we were down below in the galley alone, and Craig asked if he could play with my sizable instinctive tittays. I was somewhat taken aback, but what the hay...I liked him and felt totally unthreatened. For the record, before any of you meanies throw any shade, if a direct man had proposed such a thing I would contain decked him. lol Truth be told, I think my "wholesome" appearance and my rep as something of a good girl was part of Craig's "attraction" to my boobies. I saw the whole thing as a maternal chesticle attraction which seemed quite inoffensive. So I indulged him the opportunity to feel away, and he giggled and seemed to enjoy it. Nest trip, the matching thing happened, only THIS time he giggled and said "oops I am getting hard." ERMAGAAARD. Now I felt like a deer in the hea
Re: Pansexual ; Being sexually attracted to gay guys
Unread postby Heather »
Honestly? I don't desire to hurt your feelings or make you feel bad, but you're stereotyping here (and tokenizing a little bit, too): not all gay men look the same way. Small, "soft" men come in every orientation, and there are also loads of gay men that don't stare anything like that. How same-sex attracted men look is literally as diverse as how men of every other orientation do, you know? Too, if you're talking about men who present as femme, that's also something that isn't exclusive to gay men. Bisexual and other queer men as well as straight men are also men who can and do present as femme (they just often feel less supported in it and allowed to do it, sadly, including by straight women).
I also hear you expressing what sounds like a desire to yourself be male, but since you say you identify as a woman, it doesn't sound favor this is about being potentially trans or nonbinary for you. However, I'd have to notice more from you on all of this to get a better sense of things. From the outside and only what you said here, it sounds to me like this might just be about you entity attracted to your own Notion of
I'm a Woman Who's Sleeping With a Gay Guy (Yes, He's Still Gay)
For the past year, I’ve been having regular sex with a gay dude I'll call Oliver. We were best friends for years, attending many Self-acceptance parades and taking weekend hiking trips. But last year, after a very drunken night, we slept together—and we still are today. He maintains that he still is, and always has been, a gay man.
After the first time, we were predictably awkward and British about it. We laughed a bit that it had happened, and then we agreed we shouldn’t complete it again.
That lasted maybe three days. The first few months had all the expected exciting parts of sleeping with your best bud, but they were also tinged with this brand new fresh thing. Oliver had never been with a female before, and he was completely unaware of what a vulva or a clitoris was. Fortunately, Oliver had the benefit of my feminist Orgasm Gap rants over the past five years, and took to the task of making me come with admirable tenacity. One of the sweetest moments of that year was ruling the book She Comes First on his bedside table.
Men I’ve slept with before often have this false bravado around sex, like they need