Bator gay
I know I know I’ve been promising this topic for a while and it’s finally here. Some tips for talking to your friends about bating. In this case, I don’t mean guys you’ve met online in bate spaces, or guys you have a sexual history with. I mean bringing it up with guys already in your social circle.
I’ve mentioned on the podcast quite a scant times that with most of my close male friends, I don’t introverted away from the proof that I love a good wank. To be honest, it’s one of the key criteria for being in my inner circle. Not necessarily entity a bator but at least being open to the information that I am one. It’s something that, over the last few years, I’ve actively worked on being capable to bring up, in an open, honest way. That’s the thing that I think now means I can talk about with my mates, and not just my bate mates.
I’ve brought the subject up with a number of friends, mostly male, and although it’s only resulted in a wank together on one occasion it’s meant that I now have a community of mates with which I don’t have to hide the bator side of my personality. We can joke about porn we’ve watched, check in on each other’s enjoyment of Masturbation May, giggle at the NoFaps and
Did you know there are three clear levels of Bator? Have you ever considered which you might be among? Check out the descriptions below and see which one most suits you.
NOTE: The graphics used here are not a formal means of identifying other bators and what they’re interested in. They are simply for illustrative purposes.
The Easygoing Bator
The Easygoing Bator is the guy who has that totally chilled and masculine attitude, the man who isn’t shy about being exposed in the company of another man and isn’t ashamed of enjoying porn and jacking off openly in the firm of a friend.
This is, perhaps, the most common thoughtful of bator.
The Easygoing Bator is gleeful to kick help with a nice buddy, porn playing on the TV, a cold beer in one hand and their complicated dick in the other. He’s the man who isn’t shy with his penis in the locker room or showers, the buddy who can haul out his junk beside a buddy at the urinals without thinking about it, the guy who’ll talk to his buddies about his fantasies or sexual encounters without much restraint.
These men are usually reveal to MMF threesomes and blowbangs, as long as there’s a woman emotionally attached
Here’s something to consider about. What gentle of bator are you?
The more I connect with other bators, through the podcast, my Twitter, our discord server or other avenues online or in person, the more I’ve come to realise that Bator is an umbrella term. For a long time, I thought there was a list of attributes that one had to satisfy in order to qualify themselves as a bator. And that list, at least to me, seemed long, specific and set a pretty high prevent. These are the kinds of bators and the kinds of activities you see online a lot, particularly if you follow any bators or the relevant hashtags on twitter. But more and more I’m realising that the meaning of the term Bator is widening. It’s opening up to comprise more and more penis owners who enjoy their solo pleasures.
There are one or two types or categories that you see online more often than others but that doesn’t make them any more valid than the other categories. I comprehend there are many guys out there that enjoy a good solo session but feel reluctant to use the label Bator. That was me for a long day. Even still occasionally now I view people online proclaiming what’s required in order to be a “true bator” a
A term used to describe a person, edger, gooner, solosexual...someone that gets off on pleasuring themselves through masturbation/mutual masturbation and foreplay. Not necessarily circumscribing to penetration as a means of connection. Can be done alone or in a group (of other bators).
Can be used to narrate male or female/heterosexual and homosexual.
He's not a top, nor a bottom...hes a total 'Bator'!
Shes alone in her room tonight; shes 'Bating'....
Bate ON brothers!
by wegosolo April 26, 2010
1) A person who always calls you by identify in a public bathroom
2) A person who insists on talking to you in a public bathroom, either at the urinal or through the stall door
3) A person who follows you into a public restroom to continue a conversation
4) A person who answers their cell phone will using the urinal or sitting in the stall
I can't believe Boy Wonder followed me into the restroom to talk about his life-long dreams of a beach home, ferrari, cage diving with fantastic whites, visiting the oval office, meeting a president and swimming with a killer whale at Sea World; what a batorator.
by furry trout March 24